Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour a tube pan or bundt pan. (This recipe makes about 9.5 cups of batter.) See notes.
Add dry ingredients to the bowl of your mixer and mix for one minute to blend (sugar, flour, cocoa, baking soda, baking powder, and salt)
Add butter a few slices at a time and mix until it reaches a crumbly, sandy texture. Be careful not to over-mix beyond "sandy" consistency.
In another bowl, combine sour cream, eggs, milk, vegetable oil, and vanilla. Using a fork, mix together. This is all of your wet ingredients except for the coffee, it will be added to the batter later.
Set a timer for 1 ½ minutes and SLOWLY add half of your egg mixture to your butter/flour mixture while mixing. Start mixer on low speed then increase to medium for the remainder of the 1 ½ minutes. Do Not Mix Above Medium Speed.
Stop mixer, scrape the sides and bottom of bowl, and add half of the remaining egg mixture. Mix on medium speed for 20 seconds.
Stop mixer, scrape down the sides if necessary, and add the last of the egg mixture. Mix for 20 more seconds on medium speed.
Slowly add HOT coffee and mix on low speed for 20-30 seconds to blend. Batter will be runny but that is okay!
This recipe makes about 9 ½ cups of batter. Pour into the prepared bundt pan or tube pan and bake. Ours was ready after 50 minutes. Baking times may vary. Check after 45 minutes to be on the safe side. Insert and remove a wooden skewer into the baked cake- if it comes out clean or with just a few moist crumbs attached, it is ready.